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Deficient Development of Self-Types:
The Show Business Personality
Old-timers in show business used to talk about entertainers who were
born in a trunk. It meant a person had parents in show business,
usually vaudeville, and was raised around the show business
atmosphere. They were often professional entertainers by the age of five
or ten.
Since the mid-60s we have seen nearly entire generations of young
adults who were born into and raised in show business. Thanks to
five hours a day of TV and movies, these generations lived with
show business--psychologically surrounded by the comedians, the
plays, the stage personalities, the extravaganzas to which previous
generations had only occasional access. The generational graduates
of this environment are entertaining. They can act out a set of
lines or a part on cue. They can act and charm their way out of
responsibility. Many of them feel their acting and entertainment
value should be accepted sufficient for qualification as adults.
There is considerable social support for this view in a society that
brings major focus and importance upon entertainment figures who are
demonstrably incompetent beyond being able to look pretty, sing, or
recite lines.
The situation is reminiscent of a conversation I had in 1978. While
working on the deck of a boat I looked up and saw an old man watching
me and we began to talk. In his late eighties, he still had a sound,
perceptive and youthful mind. Eventually he began to talk about his
grandson who was in his early twenties, saying, "My grandson's a
handsome boy and he has personality plus." Then, with a pained
expression on his face he said, "But, there's no substance to the boy.
He's all personality without substance."
Actors Without Substance
That old man articulated what has been a characteristic of a large
proportion of recent generations. They are attractive and engaging.
They have meticulously-honed images. Their act is as believable as
that of actors Jason Robards or E. G. Marshall when they portray
presidents or distinguished attorneys on TV or in movies. They have
good memories for lines. They look good. They sound good. They
smell good because they use the perfume and colognes on TV
commercials which you sprinkle on and each one "brings out the real
you." And they act good. Many of them have acted their way through
law school, through graduate school, through university
departments, or through corporation executiveships. Their show
business personalities have served them well.
But, beneath the surface there is a lack of substance, and often
worse. While they look good and they are affable, like a number of
people in the acting profession they have difficulty living a
day-to-day life. They have no identity other than their act. They are
dependent upon their act as their only way of existing and dealing
with the world. It's an imitation of what is supposed to be a
real person dealing with reality. They don't know what reality is.
Beneath the cover-up, a number of them are highly pathological and
destructive. Many of the benign among them are like eight-year-old
mentalities who have graduated from charm school.
One facet of the phenomenon is illustrated by several recent TV
science fiction programs. In these particular programs the actors were
required to act out long conversations between beings from alien
galaxies in alien languages. The actors had memorized the lines and
recited the conversations perfectly. Temsop hnbjcoiu pszhjwds
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xewwyt. The actors couldn't know what they were saying because in the
English language there is no meaning to the sounds they were making.
However, they were able to memorize those lines almost instantly
and repeat them accurately on command in front of the camera.
In the same way this country has an extensive population of
people who are able to breeze through advanced degrees and
certifications by the same process without understanding or being able
to think or being able to function appropriately. The college
Economics 101 final exam is Act One, Scene Three, and is delivered
flawlessly. After obtaining a doctorate they don't understand what
the lines meant and no feeling for, or competence in, their profession.
Many of them then spend the remainder of their lives desperately
hiding in the safety of a tenured, artificial, degree-based
bureaucratic status system. The country is clogged up with them.
The show business personality is often plagued by a secondary effect
of superficiality--insecurity. Underneath the act, these are people
who lack realistic productive skill and ability. They put on a good
show, but beneath it they are way over their head in anything serious
they attempt requiring depth, real-world responsibility or
productivity. The situation is roughly equivalent to putting
actors from daytime general hospital soap operas in a real hospital to
do neurosurgery. They would impress everyone up to the time they were
at the operating table having to work on the patient. Then,
everything would suddenly fall apart. However, after the patient
died, they could dramatize elaborate explanations to avoid
confronting the issue that they are not competent or real as far as
day-to-day substance on the job. Time after time I have seen people,
and whole university or government programs or businesses, which look
impressive, which sound impressive, but don't produce substance beyond
the glitter and words they use to describe themselves. There are
too many people where the imagery and self-imagery is good, but day-to-day
operation of their private and professional lives lacks substance
and productivity. They are highly articulate in devising
evasive explanations explaining why things go wrong.
One of the symptoms of this has been the emergence of a new breed of
corporate leadership built upon imagery, showmanship and
personality. Several recent examples come to mind. The Mary
Cunningham/William Agee Bendix fiasco in the early 80s
epitomizes recent trends. Cunningham, an attractive woman in her
twenties, stepped into the vice-presidency of Bendix almost
immediately out of school. I
have never seen or heard of any of the concrete
accomplishments at Bendix that propelled her into the
vice-presidency. Nor has there been any credible explanation as to
what made her more qualified to move into that position than the
thousands of other people at Bendix who had equal educations, greater
experience, and greater knowledge of the company.
She and the president of the company, Agee, were glamorous
impressive presences, crisscrossing the country like corporate
Barbie and Ken dolls as they engaged in wheeling and dealing
corporate takeovers of what other people had built. They were
charisma incorporated. They looked good. They sounded good. But there
was no substance to what they were doing. When they tangled with the
president of Martin Marietta in their attempted takeover of his company,
they suddenly found themselves facing someone who was the real thing
whereupon he broke their backs and sent them packing. It's as simple
as that.
Cunningham gave fascinating alternative explanations to what
happened. None of these explanations are very convincing. She
became a cult figure and a symbol among the subculture of those
practicing imagery without substance who instinctively recognized and
supported her as one of their own. She became successful on the
college lecture circuit where she bowled them over with her chatter,
her image and her manner.
Cunningham seems to have a quality about her such that she seems to be
the type of person who tends to become defended as a social or
political cause. She had hysterical supporters who insisted she was a
brilliant and successful woman. None of them have ever been able to
explain what she's brilliant and successful at. They mistake style and
some type of psychological identification with her and her life style
for substance.
Dress for Success
There has been a social trend toward self-appraisal based upon
substitution of empty image and style for real content.
Commercials and magazine ads are fond of exhorting people to dress
for success. They dress for success. They public image for success.
They act success. One day they look in the mirror and evaluate their
clothes, cologne, image and mannerisms and decide they are God's gift
to the world. However, in reality they still haven't produced anything.
Would-be automobile maker DeLorean impressed me as a
imagery-without-substance operation. He was a man of impressive
appearance and manner. He was married to one of the world's most
glamorous and fashionable women. He maintained an impressive and
palatial set of corporate offices. Every aspect of the DeLorean image
was very impressive. But, in my opinion, something critical was missing
in DeLorean's psychological structure. The substance in terms of
production of the DeLorean automobile never fully materialized.
Donald Trump is another grandiose operation built on some kind of
manufactured public acclaim. He has sold himself to the public, but I
need to ask whether there is any solid content to what he is selling
or whether it will all fall apart for lack of realistic content.
Gary Hartpence, better known to the world as Senator Gary Hart, is a
man for this age. He is reminiscent of people whose entire life in
high school was the debate team. They never took any math or sciences.
They were primarily uneducated showpieces--often self-infatuated
showpieces. They could stand up before an audience and debate
any subject endlessly with no knowledge or substance whatsoever. Very
impressive and presentable, they were not the kind of people you
would want to run anything because they could talk people into a
disaster and make it sound good.
Hart is an engaging show business personality. Nothing about him is
real. Somewhere along the road from jug-eared high-school nerd to
the man who almost became president, he learned how to charm and how
to present a public image. His entire career seems to have been a
public relations manipulation. He changed his name. At one point
there was confusion over whether he attempted to change his age to
make himself appear younger and to fit in better with 1960s
generational politics. To devise a military background, at the age
of nearly fifty he wrangled a naval officer's commission at
elevated rank. He created a public relations rubric of "new
ideas" to represent some sort of hypothetical intellectual
formulation or program. At best the new ideas were glossy reformulations
of empty left-wing dialogue from the 1960s youth movements.
Hart was transparently lacking in substance and character. For years,
the media had helped cover up his extramarital affairs the same as they
had covered up the activities of John Kennedy in the 1950s and
1960s. The difference between Hart and Kennedy was that Kennedy
continued to charm the media while Hart arrogantly came to assume a
right to demand that they cover for him. In their
anti-establishment attitude the media would be willing participants
in helping to put one over on the folks in Peoria, but they didn't want
to be dictated to and insulted. They didn't want to be the ones made
into suckers. This betrayal of the press by Hart produced a resentment
and indignation among the press that they acted upon, culminating in
Hart's downfall. But for that, he would have won the Democratic
nomination.
Tragically, John Glenn, who was among the finest the country could
produce, never received any significant support for the presidency
among Democrats. In recent decades, the Right Stuff is the wrong
stuff. Personal substance did not strike a chord of consonance in
Democrats. They were looking for a slick character to express both a
diffuse anger and their trendy attitude toward life.
Lack of substance coupled with fear that lack of substance will be
discovered has produced a class of people who live a type of constant
suspicion, fear, and an adversarial relationship with a world around
them which threatens to expose them. They are forced to reject
reality as well as reject American culture representing reality
or responsibility because they are unequipped to deal with it.
Word Shrouds
Symptomatic of deficient substance are clever phrases or
concepts that are defensive cover-ups or forms of denial which
periodically tend to circulate around, and sometimes inundate, the
country. One of the recent cover-ups is a diagnosis, either by one's
self, or by a mental health professional, that a person is
"perfectionistic." Usually there is an attempted
psychological tie-in back to parents, saying, "Your parents put
pressure on you to be perfectionistic as a teen and this
instilled desire is causing you to be perfectionistic, nervous, and
fatigued now." The argument has been adopted as an explanation
for many problems, especially nervousness, feelings of being
overwhelmed, and fatigue. I have particularly heard a large number
of women calling in to radio psychologists with complaints and being
given that interpretation of their problem.
However, under close analysis, there are three elements in the
concept of perfectionistic. First, there is a person's
performance or capacity for performance of a task or tasks.
Second, there are the standards a person is required to meet in
performing a task. Third, there is a person's level of
aspiration. Now suppose there is a gap between a person's
performance level and the standards to which he or she is
expected to accomplish. Is this failure of a person to meet
those standards because of a deficiency in the person's
performance, or is it because the standards are too high or too
perfectionistic?
The condition is roughly as follows. In the 1960s and 1970s the same
standards were applied to teen-agers as were applied to previous
generations. Because of softness in childrearing, deficiencies in
education, and a debilitating social atmosphere, generations escaped
attaining the most minimal standards or responsibilities. Kids who
graduated from endless hours per day of TV pap and who were
deficient in scholastic development, deficient in social
development, deficient in self-discipline, deficient in capacity to
accept responsibility or discomfort were suddenly confronted with
responsibilities for which they were unprepared and which, as a
defense, were labeled perfectionistic. The same levels of development
and responsibility were being prepared for and were being met ten
years earlier by previous generations. The level of performance was
not perfectionistic, but new generations unable to meet the most
minimal standards saw them as beyond reach and felt severely
pressured. In the deficiency of early development, minimal
standards were impossible to meet.
Concurrently, these same generations expected high levels of
achievement and aspiration. They were encouraged by parents who vowed
their children would never need to work like their parents did. The
media constantly whip people into a frenzy with achievement and
high-status exhortation or imagery while magazine ads picture
people none of whom look as though they make less than $300,000 per
year. There's a local Washington, D.C. radio commercial which
starts out with a series of images something like, "The
Washington Woman! Affluent! Committed! Active! Dynamic!
On the move!" Again, there is a pattern of images without
content. Nobody is supposed to be average.
While nobody is supposed to be average, it's a grim fact that most
people are nearly average and half the population is below average.
Nobody has been prepared to accept this.
More than two generations, now, have been surrounded and
programmed with belief in their specialness. They have
internalized it, and they believe that is the way their lives are
supposed to be. They were raised to be special. They were
encouraged in the fantasy that they would be something
special--in a developmental atmosphere which did not train them, which
did not cause them to test their capacities and fantasies against
reality, and which did not harden them enough to face the rigors of
achievement and the real world. In many cases they aspire to high
levels of achievement or status, whether as executive officers,
sales executives and other high positions in which a person is under
stress to produce and in which a person is not allowed to make very
many mistakes then survive or remain on top. Perfectionism is part
of the territory. They are committed over their capacity and
endurance.
One aspect of the situation is exemplified by a successful woman who
receives a salary more than twice the average in the
Washington, D. C. area. She complains of the striving for
"perfectionism" in her life. When asked to explain what she means
by perfectionism: As an assistant manager who receives commissions
on not only her own sales, but also commission on the sales by those she
directs, she is expected to set an example by having one of the highest
consistent overall sales records in the branch. She is expected to
have one of the highest proportions of sales closings in the
branch, implying few mistakes in presentations. She is expected to
instruct her staff. She is expected to study and take tests
each week on new sales strategies. It represents many hours a week
and she doesn't have what she considers to be enough time for herself.
She's pushed and under constant stress. It doesn't feel as good as the
imagery in the ads or the radio commercials look.
In fact, that's not perfectionism. It's reality. It is minimally doing
the job. That is what came with that salary of more than twice the
area average. She applied for a high-achievement position and she
found it. It's taking a toll on her.
Many products of recent generations have a high aspiration level and
a fantasy about what performance is expected, about what commitment
is expected, and about what their own capabilities are. The term
perfectionism is a way of rationalizing excuses when hard reality
fails to conform to fantasy and when they are asked to deliver
substance instead of just imagery.
Hit and Run
In both their professional and personal lives, show business
personalities are often people who are hit-and-run operations. They
enter dramatically. They impress people on an image level and then
move on before they become involved with concrete substance. In
corporations and organizations they often enjoy a meteoric rise and
moving upward and back and forth among various positions. Close
examination behind the image of the attractive dynamic winner reveals
they haven't produced very much. Somewhere there is something
missing. If they remain in a responsible position for more than two
years, things start to go wrong unless there are other talented people
of substance who can cover for them.
Their romantic relationships are similar and have a superficial
dynamic quality. They have an engaging line of patter. They know the
best night clubs or restaurants and can interpret the best wine
lists. The men cook impressive meals, which become a fad for a
while. They know the right music to set a romantic mood. They run
through a series of perfect performances at high speed which fill or
constitute the relationship. When the repertoire is completed, they
must either find a way to re-perform it, or must move on. It is
as if they are playing a programmed recording tape which runs
through a series of carefully set up superficial romantic
performances at high speed. When the tape comes to an end the
relationship stops because the tape is all there is and there is
nothing else to the relationship. Sometimes, they will be in a
panic to rewind the tape and replay it in order to continue the
relationship. These are people who can't live day to day in a
one-to-one relationship with somebody because the relationship
would fall to pieces for lack of substance. They are very
promising people. They will promise you anything, but they can't
deliver.
There are large numbers of women, some of whom are national
figures, who fall into this pattern. They walk into a room, are very
striking, and men will say, "Hey, who is that?" Having a certain
glitter or dazzle or image or sweep and enough beauty to put it over,
they can intrigue men on the basis of their image. They have no
trouble getting men on this basis and they have the image of being
super-women and men-conquerors who do not form permanent
relationships because of what is glamorized as independence or
liberation.
In fact, what is mislabeled independence is basically an
incapacity. For lack of substance they are not the kind of people with
whom someone could live day to day and hence they cannot participate
in day-to-day permanent relationships. They can tease or parcel
out evenings of engaging superficial image, including in bed, but
they can't stick around. If they do stick around, the relationship
doesn't work and the man leaves. They can only conduct
hit-and-run operations. They are like attractively-wrapped
packages which can hold interest only until opened and found to be
empty.
This is a basic problem for too large a proportion of several
generations. They are empty. Even many of those who are
financially successful have not developed to any extent in terms of
character, depth of emotion, conviction, sense of honor, or much of
anything else. They may have temper tantrums, but temper tantrums are
not the same as substance. Their list of desires and superficial
image have developed, but little else has. They aren't anything. They
have no definition or structure.
In summation, American culture has a great number of people who have
superficially attractive personalities and who look good and sound
good and may even be quite impressive on the surface, but haven't
substantial mentality or maturity. While they are attractive and
engaging, they are impossible to live with in a day-to-day
situation as they have no substance or sense of responsibility. They
are destructive in the business world. They are catastrophically
successful in the political world. Two of them made it to the White
House as Bill and Hillary Clinton.
This contrast between attractive superficiality and deficient
substance is often a source of confusion--and entrapment. People will
often remark how somebody divorced a well-known actress or actor or a
glamorous movie star and wonder how it is possible to leave such an
attractive and engaging person. They think whoever was married to such
a person was the luckiest man or woman in the world.
Whoever it was did have luck and it was all bad. Beneath the
attractive exterior and the engaging public personality was a lack
of real content and a personal mess. They are not the kind of person
who can be lived with. This has been a characteristic of a large
proportion of at least a generation.
The Decline of Productivity
People in America who inhabit and graduate from the culture of
attractiveness and image without substance lack either the
capability or motivation to examine each other, or anything else, for
substance or content beneath the surface.
A spin-off from lack of individual substance is the decline in
productivity and the incompetence crisis in this country. Having
become incapable of participation in the substance of necessary
industrial production, Americans have Orientals do it for them. Either
Asians do it over there, to the tune of what is becoming a
$250,000,000,000 or more trade deficit--we import more than the gross
national product of many countries to make up for the lack of
productivity here. Or we have them come over here to do it.
We have become dependent upon Orientals and the imported
self-discipline and personal substance of other cultures for
domestic engineering expertise. Sitting in front of me is a set of
statistics from an engineering college of a major university
indicating out of 794 engineering graduate students, 293 are
foreign and 67 are naturalized, mostly Asians. The best students are
usually Asians. In the best schools, forty percent of the students
in engineering and the sciences are Asian. Thank God. But for
Orientals and other foreign cultures, America would be
technologically and industrially bankrupt. In a shameful act of
discrimination and resentment, it is now being claimed that Asians
are racially over-represented in schools and professions. The
disgraceful assumption in this is that achievement and success
are to be based on vended demographic representation rather than
industriousness.
One of the benefits of the Viet Nam war is that it has furnished
America with a major proportion of its necessary engineering and
industrial talent for the 40 years as the hardy, intelligent,
educated, self-disciplined Vietnamese have filled the ranks of
American engineering colleges.
It is rationalized that we are becoming a service economy. That
assertion is a verbal manipulation attempting to obscure the fact
we are becoming a nation of incompetent hot-house-plants producing
no substance. What a service economy means is that Japanese,
Koreans, Chinese and Germans are supposed to produce the industrial
goods used in America while Americans strut around with fancy clothes
and fancy titles, charging each other for passing those goods back
and forth among themselves, calling it productivity. A spring 1991
60 Minutes segment stated that only four percent of consumer electronics
sold in the United States were manufactured in the United States.
That's not productivity. It's industrial bankruptcy.
On December 6th and 7th of 1991 a special Ted Koppel
Nightline dealt with the economic competition between the U. S. and
the Japanese. When Koppel asked three Japanese leaders why America
was failing economically, one of the Japanese mentioned the
permissiveness in U.S. society in the last forty years as a factor.
Nobody in an American guest audience of hundreds of people acted as
though what he said was important or that they had even heard it. It
was the most important things that was said in two nights of
discussion.
His observation can be put in plainer language that will be more
difficult to ignore. For decades our educational system and our
social value system has been oriented toward producing hippies, fops,
"social activists" and pathological personalities. During that same
period the Japanese produced engineers and scientists. There's no
way American generations that were incompetent graduates of the
60s and 70s can compete economically with the competence of Japanese
scientists and engineers who are now many years ahead of Americans.
We're paying the economic price for the mindless, borderline
psychotic, incompetent liberalism of decades.
For more than 25 years America country has become progressively
top-heavy with people who believe they are special--too special to
participate in the production of basic goods and services. You can
barely pay all these special people enough money to get the necessary
work done. There is nobody left to do the work. Your money is no
good. The American inflation of the 70s was in truth an incompetence
tax which has been reduced my importing massive amounts of foreign
goods at cumulative trade deficits of trillions of dollars.
A secondary crisis resulting from the rampant stagflation of the
1970s due to incompetence and reluctance of the Bill Clinton hip
generation was the collapse of the retirement and social security
system in this country. People who put money away when five dollars or
ten dollars was worth something suddenly found their retirement
savings became worthless. If they were clever, they might have been
fortunate enough to buy CDs (certificates of deposit) paying more than
20 percent interest in the late 1970s, but even those weren't
sufficient to keep up with economic decline.
Trickle-Up Stupidity
The assertion by left-wing and counter-cultural hacks is that the 1980s
was the Reagan Supply Side Economics (re-labeled
Trickle-Down Economics) Decade of Greed. That, it is asserted, was
the cause of subsequent economic difficulties. This assertion
has not been questioned on TV and elsewhere because the TV network
mentalities are characteristic of the mentalities making the initial
assertion. It should be questioned. We were experiencing serious
economic difficulties before Reagan. The problem was not, and is not,
supply-side economics. The problem is trickle-up softness,
trickle-up disinterest in economic productivity, trickle-up
self-indulgence, trickle-up degeneracy and trickle-up stupidity. In
the last 25 years there have not been enough quality people in
recent generations to take the place of the previous generations
who built America on the concrete real level and made it work.
Trickle-up economics, trickle-down, trickle-sideways, torrential
downpours from all directions, supply side, socialism, free
enterprise--no economic concept or no economic system of any kind will
function with the numbers of people showing the type of personal
characteristics and large scale deficient level of competence which
have been seen in America during recent decades.
The problem was not Reagan's decade of greed, but three or more
decades of degeneracy culminated by the election of a president, Bill
Clinton, who never worked an outside real job or at anything else
beyond pursuit of political ambitions. Neither Bill or Hillary
has ever produced anything in their lifetimes. A generation
of Bill and Hillary Clintons lacked the characteristics
necessary to replace the productivity of previous generations.
We are now facing an economic crisis of disastrous proportions. Since
the 1960s we have had a series of cyclic economic recessions
which have become progressively severe and of progressively
longer duration. There has been more American unemployment in this
country as the substantive industrial work has been done elsewhere.
Given the incompetence levels in America, the Japanese and Chinese
are charging us for doing the substantive work in this culture. They
were using the money to buy property in this country and at one
time owned more than thirty percent of the prime commercial real
estate in major American cities although they have been bailing
out under pressure. In the early 1990s, America went through
what can only be called a depression. America is in a state
of temporarily hidden economic and technological collapse. There was
a cry for the President to do something in 1991 and 1992. If everyone
in America had been given an outright gift of $10,000 to "prime the
economic pump" there would have been a party that would have lasted
for a month with massive purchase of Japanese electronics and
automobiles, and Chinese and Korean clothes without creating one
new job over here--and inadvertent passage of an additional entire
state into foreign ownership.
A special NBC Brokaw Report: Families in Crisis on March 20, 1992
unwittingly explained aspects of the situation very well. The hour
was dedicated to examining the crisis in deterioration of families in
the U.S. and the affect upon mothers, children and whatever. In
reality the concept of family had little to do with much of the show.
In many cases it was a matter of unmarried people having children
with the level of commitment of a quick shot in a back alley--some
of them by multiple partners at various times. Family had nothing
to do with it. In other cases there were marriages which lasted
until somebody bumped into somebody else they liked better for a
while or found something more interesting they wanted to do.
The revealing part was a brief discussion toward the end of the show
by several people who, unfortunately, were members of a presidential
commission. With characteristic indignation, one of the members said it
should be made the responsibility of American business to finance
rehabilitation of the people involved in the problems and life styles
indicated in the show. This view is alarming from several aspects.
In the first place it contains assertion of an act of criminality
against a free society in the assumption that anyone requires
permission or is required to meet outside preconditions to start a
business or that there should be a right to impose unwanted
impositions upon businesses. In a free society any individual or group
has a right to offer a product of manufacture, or a service,
to other individuals or other groups. If other individuals or
other groups want to buy that product or service, it is their
decision and freedom to do so. Third parties or groups have no
standing or right to intervene in that agreement. Agreeing parties do
not need to justify their right to make that agreement by benefiting,
or engaging in social work, with third parties. The only limitations
should be that all parties are acting within the agreed upon scope
of the agreement. Outside interests have no right to impose the rule
that two people solve their drug problems or shack-job problems
before entering into private agreement to manufacture items or
exchange services.
The individuals or groups offering their products or services and the
individuals or groups agreeing to purchase those goods or services
have a responsibility to each other and none other. In a free
society or free enterprise system, no government or outside group
has a right to restrict or impose conditions upon that agreement for
their own purposes. That means individuals or groups are not required
to solve the personal problems of outside parties in the community as a
precondition for being allowed to conduct their own business or
personal affairs.
Other people were not put on this planet to be forced to be made
responsible for personal excesses or personal irresponsibility of the
people involved, or for anybody else. Out of respect for people,
they are not to be forced to do it. This basic lack of respect for
anything or anybody is what got the people involved in the situation
they were in.
Secondly, there is little indication of desire for
rehabilitation. There was not the most remote sign of
receptiveness toward self-examining the morality, the behavior, or
the values which produced the conditions about which the people
were complaining. One thing that would have been nice to be heard, just
once, in more than 30 years of analysis and debate over personal and
"social" conditions in this country, would have been the sincerely
asked question, "Is it possible I am doing something wrong?" Not once
in 30 years has anyone sincerely asked what self-improvements they
might make in terms of personal morality, personal responsibility,
truthfulness, or diligence. Many of the behaviors in question were
engaged in as militantly asserted statements of personal choice or
freedom with arrogant indifference toward consequences. What is
being demanded is support for those actions within no intentions
to change the activity or the underwriting value system. That is not
asking for rehabilitation. That is not change.
Somewhere there has grown a serious misconception and an
inversion of responsibility. It is the responsibility of
individuals in this society to seriously manage their lives and
develop their capabilities so that they are able and ready to make a
contribution to business, to industry, and to the economic needs of the
community. Starting at an early age. It is not the obligation of other
people, including the business community, to constantly pick up
after people who have shown little such seriousness or
responsibility.
Personal Responsibility
What is being displayed is precious little humility, precious
little realistic interest in rehabilitation, precious little
admission of personal responsibility, endless demands upon other
people, and great amounts of arrogance.
What has not been heard in all the assertion of demands to make
choices among various life styles and value systems is the
willingness to live with the consequences.
How Americans supposed to compete with the Japanese and Germans while
adding the cost of unreasoned sex lives and inability to form
serious human relationships on to the cost of goods and services is
never discussed.
Similarly, the person attempting to start a business or maintain a
business is faced with, or is to be made responsible for,
underwriting the cost of a recalcitrant and indignant social
pathology and a social activism attempting to divert
responsibility for actions away from those committing the acts. As a
prerequisite for being allowed to start a business, someone cannot, and
in a free society, should not, be billed for the drug excesses, the
sexual excesses, and the pathological life styles throughout the
country. Both the levels of pathology and irrational demands
for others to pay the bills are escalating faster than anyone or any
group can keep up with it. Then there is complaint about the loss of
jobs or the lack of new business creating jobs.
Buying and selling each other junk bonds isn't the answer.
Neither is selling junk relationships in our personal lives going to
work.
The economic problems and the interpersonal relationships
problems in America have the same root cause--deficient personal
substance, deficient sense of reality and deficient
self-discipline. More will be said about economics later.
Would-be experts and analysts point out that Japan and other
economic competitors are also experiencing economic difficulties. There
is an important difference between any economic adjustments being
experienced by Japan and similar countries versus the years of decline
which have occurred here. The problems of Japan and similar
countries are economic--and probably transitory adjustments.
America is ridden by problems of a far more profound nature which have
economic consequences.
If other countries are smart, they will avoid economic linkages with
America that will make them vulnerable to American problems.
As far as negotiations with other nations are concerned, there is
nothing to negotiate for. What we are demanding in our
negotiations is that serious Asians become less disciplined, less
diligent, less intelligent, less well educated, and more childish so
that weakling American generations can compete with them. America is
a morally, psychologically, and economically decaying society. Other
countries know it. Americans have no leverage. America has the same
leverage in negotiations of any kind with any other developed country
that a dying man has in negotiating with the circling vultures.
Robert L. Kocher is the author of "The American Mind in Denial," as well as many other articles. He is an engineer working in the area of solid-state physics, and has done graduate study in clinical psychology. His email address is steiner@access.mountain.net.
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from The Laissez Faire City Times, Vol 3, No 45, November 22, 1999
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